Fortunately, the overwhelming most of other males in the world, the smarter ones, still strongly pursue women.Sadly many black American women have entered the lowest period of black American women’s existence because they try to look and behave like the Ambers and Kim-Ks in order to catch the eye of off-thinking black males. This is the equivalent of a curse on black American women.In a few weeks we’ll celebrate our 7th anniversary! He and I work really well together to accomplish our goals and work towards our dreams. I, too, meet black women my age who seem ‘bewildered’ by their social circumstances.They are still waiting for permission, to travel, to date, to try new hobbies.On the bright side, I see all kinds of black women in LA with their partners, lots of Asian male spouses, lots of quirky, artsy lovely young women enjoying life.Congratulations on your upcoming 7th year marriage anniversary!Yes, some white and other nonblack women choose to mingle with bottom-feeding black males, but non-black women (particularly the white ones) have the white privilege that they later on use to dust themselves off and say they went insane for a minute.
It’s so hard to explain this to those who have not found a CQLL partner and have not married. So good to hear that many of those black women in LA have caught the clue and are securing partners! After all, we know from evo-bio-Anthropology that every woman can get a male, but not every male can get a female.“I was intrigued by a number of things,” he said, listing her profession — they were both lawyers, but she was in corporate law — her worldliness, and the easy conversation the two shared.Also, he said, “I clearly just found her superattractive.” So along with her feminine desirability, he found her fascinating.She engaged his mind and his heart, and all else followed.As a mature and worldly woman, I’ve known for decades that men are wildly attracted to and remain with women who can engage their minds and keep it pointed at her.