But of course he has to be real swift because a woman like you doesn’t stay single for very long.
So I was gravitated to him because he was safe and distant because I needed the distance myself to sort my head out and regain and enjoy my independence. He speaks to you clearly of his “intentions” (and all those things you require from a man) with his actions. It’s because he doesn’t want to or he’s not ready for that.
If a guy isn’t giving me an indication that he’s ready for anything hot and heavy I’ll feel so icky and awkward about bringing this subject up with him. A lot of women do that and they are not getting what they want cause it shows a lack of decorum and it is plain reactive and unattractive. He wants a prize, not a desperate housewife wannabe. You are allowed your own pace but until he is on the same page as you, it’s really futile to force your pace on him. What is the purpose of this drama prone guilt trip imposed on him? If you aren’t comfortable following a man’s lead, then you are not cut out to be with a masculine man -which entails MOST MEN.
You lose a score or five in his eyes, that’s why he’s reluctant to run after you. And if you have seen repeated same problems in your previous relationships, it’s time to change that mindset or stay trapped. You don’t want a guy who does things because he has to anyway.
Find a few guys who are just like him and you will never have to so get ahead of yourself or any guy.
My method assures your dignity intact in every situation.